reconcile
Americanverb (used with object)
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reconciles,
present (3rd person singular)
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reconciled,
past participle, past
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reconciling
present participle
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to cause (a person) to accept or be resigned to something not desired.
He was reconciled to his fate.
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to win over to friendliness; cause to become amicable.
to reconcile hostile persons.
- Synonyms:
- placate, propitiate, pacify
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to compose or settle (a quarrel, dispute, etc.).
- Antonyms:
- anger
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to bring into agreement or harmony; make compatible or consistent.
to reconcile differing statements;
to reconcile accounts.
- Synonyms:
- harmonize
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to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, cemetery, etc.).
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to restore (an excommunicate or penitent) to communion in a church.
verb (used without object)
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reconciles,
present (3rd person singular)
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reconciled,
past participle, past
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reconciling
present participle
verb
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to make (oneself or another) no longer opposed; cause to acquiesce in something unpleasant
she reconciled herself to poverty
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to become friendly with (someone) after estrangement or to re-establish friendly relations between (two or more people)
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to settle (a quarrel or difference)
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to make (two apparently conflicting things) compatible or consistent with each other
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to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, etc)
Usage
What does reconcile mean? Reconcile means to make amends, come to a truce, or settle a dispute. Reconcile can also mean to make things compatible or consistent with each other. This sense of the word is especially used when discussing two things that cannot be reconciled, such as two contrasting beliefs. Another sense of the word means to cause to accept a negative situation or become resigned to it, as in I am reconciled to my fate of never being able to afford my dream house. The noun form of reconcile is reconciliation, which refers to the process of reconciling. It’s also the name of a Catholic sacrament involving the confession of sin. Example: After years of not speaking to each other, the two finally sat down and reconciled.
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
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prereconcilementnoun
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reconcilementnoun
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reconcilernoun
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reconciliationnoun
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prereconcileverb (used with object)
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quasi-reconciledadjective
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reconciliatoryadjective
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unreconciledadjective
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unreconcilingadjective
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reconcilinglyadverb
Inflected Forms
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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reconcilesimple
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reconcilessimple
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have reconciledperfect
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has reconciledperfect
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am reconcilingprogressive
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are reconcilingprogressive
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is reconcilingprogressive
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have been reconcilingperfect progressive
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has been reconcilingperfect progressive
Past
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reconciledsimple
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had reconciledperfect
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was reconcilingprogressive
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were reconcilingprogressive
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had been reconcilingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of reconcile
First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English reconcilen, from Latin reconciliāre “to make good again, repair,” equivalent to re- re- + conciliāre “to bring together” ( see conciliate)
Explanation
Reach for the verb reconcile to make different things come together or resolve a matter. If you've ever had an argument with someone and then made up, you have reconciled. Reconcile is a verb that can mean "to become resigned" like if you're reconciled to getting the bottom bunk when you wanted the top. It also means to "bring into agreement and harmony." Words like it are pacify, harmonize, and accommodate — reconcile is definitely an agreeable word!
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Example Sentences
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It will be interesting to see how they reconcile these positions with fiscal priorities.
From Slate ● Nov. 4, 2026
My wife and I are trying to reconcile the financial advice we receive from our advisory team, which is often conservative, with the retirement lifestyle we envision and believe we can comfortably afford.
From MarketWatch ● Oct. 29, 2026
The member of the Cardiff Council cabinet and Llanrumney ward councillor said in a letter it was "hard to reconcile" the centre's emissions "with Cardiff's climate emergency declaration and Planning Policy Wales".
From BBC ● Oct. 16, 2026
The president tries to reconcile restrainers and hawks with his strategic goals.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Oct. 12, 2026
Then he asked me to show how the late medieval commentary had attempted to reconcile these difficulties, and I went over that, too.
From "The Chosen" by Chaim Potok
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Investors are waiting to hear how Fed Chair Kevin Warsh reconciles his patient approach to rate policy with his backing of the 2% target.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Aug. 26, 2026
There is nothing that reconciles those two decisions through any logic or law.
From Slate ● Apr. 30, 2026
More like a short story, recounting the evening from Hart’s point of view as he reconciles with the fact that his former creative partner Richard Rodgers has created a hit with Oscar Hammerstein.
From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 5, 2025
Meanwhile, back in Cousins, Massachusetts, Jeremiah ends up with Denise and reconciles with his dad.
From BBC ● Sep. 17, 2025
Custom reconciles us to things in themselves most shocking.
From Four Years in France or, Narrative of an English Family's Residence there during that Period; Preceded by some Account of the Conversion of the Author to the Catholic Faith by Henry Digby Beste
The couple briefly separated in 2025 after the first season of the reality show had aired, but later reconciled.
From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 5, 2026
By accounting for this complex sediment history, the team reconciled the conflicting measurements and strengthened the evidence for the site's revised age.
From Science Daily ● Oct. 27, 2026
Students in Milan and Marseille and Mumbai may well return to school and be reconciled to their lives, at least for now.
From Salon ● Oct. 26, 2026
Last week, another emotional documentary chronicling the tour - and featuring the reconciled brothers' first joint interview since their acrimonious split in 2009 - was released in UK cinemas, following its premiere in Venice.
From BBC ● Sep. 14, 2026
My hope that we would be reconciled grew dim, and I was filled with new regrets.
From "Ophelia" by Lisa Klein
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As in the Gilded Age, winning the presidency requires reconciling competing factions, as McKinley, Roosevelt and Wilson discovered.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Nov. 1, 2026
The researchers had already published work aimed at reconciling argon-argon dating with uranium-lead dating, the two methods most widely used to determine the ages of rocks.
From Science Daily ● Sep. 30, 2026
Venezuela's interim government and opposition representatives on Wednesday wrapped up a first round of talks aimed at reconciling the nation following the US ouster of longtime leader Nicolas Maduro.
From Barron's ● Aug. 13, 2026
The track finds mother and daughter writing to each other about their relationship, reconciling the effects Madonna’s fame had on her firstborn child.
From Salon ● Jul. 8, 2026
For it is only by reconciling contradictions that power can be retained indefinitely.
From "1984" by George Orwell
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