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[uh-basht] /əˈbæʃt/
ashamed or embarrassed; disconcerted:
My clumsiness left me abashed.
Origin of abashed
Middle English word dating back to 1300-50; See origin at abash, -ed2
Related forms
[uh-bash-id-lee] /əˈbæʃ ɪd li/ (Show IPA),
abashedness, noun
unabashed, adjective


[uh-bash] /əˈbæʃ/
verb (used with object)
to destroy the self-confidence, poise, or self-possession of; disconcert; make ashamed or embarrassed:
to abash someone by sneering.
1275-1325; Middle English abaishen < dialectal Old French abacher, Old French abaissier to put down, bring low (see abase), perhaps conflated with Anglo-French abaiss-, long stem of abair, Old French esba(h)ir to gape, marvel, amaze (es- ex-1 + -ba(h)ir, alteration of baer to open wide, gape < Vulgar Latin *batāre; cf. bay2, bay3)
Related forms
abashment, noun
shame, discompose, embarrass. Unabridged
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  • I stood before her abashed, and that was ridiculous, while she measured me as if I presented in myself the woman I took her to be.

    The Pool in the Desert Sara Jeanette Duncan
  • I was awed and abashed by the dignity of his bearing and his speech.

    Down The River Oliver Optic
  • He was a man of few words, naturally diffident of his colloquial powers, and easily confused and abashed.

    Mark Hurdlestone Susanna Moodie
  • His enemies were for the time discomfited, and even the hardy Wilton was abashed.

    St. Winifred's Frederic W. Farrar
  • She laid an abashed cheek on his hands that were still fondling hers.

    In the Heart of a Fool William Allen White
  • The boy, not at all abashed, put out his hand, and welcomed Captain Kent.

    Historic Boyhoods Rupert Sargent Holland
  • Fondling the trembling creature against her cheek, she talked first to him, then to his abashed persecutors.

    Maida's Little Shop Inez Haynes Irwin
  • The moment it was past, however, my heart fell, abashed at its own meanness and wickedness.

    The Quadroon Mayne Reid
  • The strong double light revealed her face of abashed delight, although the young man did not understand it.

    The Portion of Labor Mary E. Wilkins Freeman
British Dictionary definitions for abashed


ill at ease, embarrassed, or confused; ashamed
Derived Forms
abashedly, noun


(transitive; usually passive) to cause to feel ill at ease, embarrassed, or confused; make ashamed
Derived Forms
abashment, noun
Word Origin
C14: via Norman French from Old French esbair to be astonished, from es- out + bair to gape, yawn
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Word Origin and History for abashed



"perplex, embarrass," early 15c., earlier "lose one's composure, be upset" (late 14c.), from Old French esbaiss-, present stem of esbaer "gape with astonishment," from es "out" (see ex-) + ba(y)er "to be open, gape," from Latin *batare "to yawn, gape," from root *bat, possibly imitative of yawning. Related: Abashed; abashing. Bashful is a 16c. derivative.

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