against the grain


Opposed to one's inclination or preference, as in We followed the new supervisor's advice, though it went against the grain. This metaphor refers to the natural direction of the fibers in a piece of wood, called its grain; when sawed obliquely, or “against the grain,” the wood will tend to splinter. [c. 1600] For a synonym, see rub the wrong way.

Words Nearby against the grain

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How to use against the grain in a sentence

  • Everything he had said he stuck to; doing it, too, with a sorrowful and against-the-grain air.

    Aletta | Bertram Mitford