aloofness
Americannoun
Etymology
Origin of aloofness
Explanation
Aloofness is a noun meaning a state of being distant, remote, or withdrawn. Someone showing aloofness might be shy, or just really doesn't want to be around people. Aloofness is from the adjective aloof — originally a nautical term. The lee side of a ship was the sheltered side, but in a storm, if the wind was blowing your ship toward shore, you wanted to steer toward the loof (or weather side) of the ship, so that you weren't forced into the shore. Thus literally trying to keep your distance from shore by steering a loof, which gave rise to the more figurative meaning of being distant.
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Example Sentences
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They won us over with their mild pomposity and aloofness, whereas Rapaport’s annoyance wreaks collateral damage like a chronically unbathed person’s odor assails bystanders.
From Salon • Jan. 15, 2026
And Calder Gardens, for all the undoubted talent and imagination it displays, sadly turns its back on its Parkway context with a self-satisfied aloofness.
From The Wall Street Journal • Sep. 24, 2025
Badly wanting this to be different from my codependent and stifling marriage, I told myself his aloofness was a good thing.
From Los Angeles Times • Aug. 15, 2025
Another parent said the school showed an "aloofness and detachment" when dealing with the harm done to his daughter.
From BBC • May 12, 2025
That was how I escaped my father’s aloofness, in my dead mother’s books.
From "The Kite Runner" by Khaled Hosseini
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