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[dih-myoo r] /dɪˈmyʊər/
adjective, demurer, demurest.
characterized by shyness and modesty; reserved.
affectedly or coyly decorous, sober, or sedate.
Origin of demure
1350-1400; Middle English dem(e)ur(e) well-mannered, grave < Anglo-French demuré, past participle of demurer to demur; perhaps influenced by Old French mur, mëur grave, mature (< Latin matūrus)
Related forms
demurely, adverb
demureness, noun
undemure, adjective
undemurely, adverb
undemureness, noun
Can be confused
demur, demure.
1. retiring. See modest.
1, 2. indecorous. Unabridged
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Examples from the Web for demureness
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  • At this point Judy's demureness gave way and she laughed till the tears came.

    The Art of Disappearing John Talbot Smith
  • (With the faintest suggestion of demureness) All pretty things do.

    First Plays A. A. Milne
  • Of a sudden she would assume a demureness, utterly bewitching in its veiled and perfect mimicry.

    Overland Red Henry Herbert Knibbs
  • "I'm visiting Jane," she replied at length, with an affectation of demureness.

    The Riverman Stewart Edward White
  • He was captivated by her freshness and beauty, her demureness, her ignorance of all things vicious.

    Within the Law Marvin Dana
  • This with a sudden explosiveness at the last, after the demureness.

  • There was in the frock a demureness almost Quaker-like which as a foil for her beauty breathed the very essence of coquetry.

    Flood Tide Sara Ware Bassett
  • Judith, the picture of demureness, would give him a glance that would almost create an explosion.

    Throckmorton Molly Elliot Seawell
  • She walked up the long interior with the demureness of a stockbroker's young wife out for the evening from Putney Hill.

    The Pretty Lady Arnold E. Bennett
  • Polly, usually the essence of demureness, turned and looked at us with hard, angry eyes.

    An American Girl in Munich Mabel W. Daniels
British Dictionary definitions for demureness


sedate; decorous; reserved
affectedly modest or prim; coy
Derived Forms
demurely, adverb
demureness, noun
Word Origin
C14: perhaps from Old French demorer to delay, linger; perhaps influenced by meur ripe, mature
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Word Origin and History for demureness



late 14c. (early 14c. as a surname), from Old French meur "mature, fully grown, ripe," hence "discreet," from Latin maturus "mature" (see mature (v.)) [OED]. The de- in this word is of uncertain meaning. Or possibly from Anglo-French demuré (Old French demoré), past participle of demorer "stay," and influenced by meur [Barnhart]. Or from Old French de (bon) murs "of good manners," from murs (Modern French moeurs) [Klein].

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper
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