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[frey] /freɪ/
verb (used with object)
to wear (cloth, rope, etc.) to loose, raveled threads or fibers at the edge or end; cause to ravel out:
Our old washing machine frayed all of our towels.
to wear by rubbing (sometimes followed by through).
to cause strain on (something); upset; discompose:
All that arguing is fraying my nerves.
to rub.
verb (used without object)
to wear into loose, raveled threads or fibers, as cloth; ravel out:
My sweater frayed at the elbows.
to become strained or stressed:
Jealousy could be a sign that your relationship is fraying.
to rub against something:
tall grass fraying against my knees.
a raveled or worn part, as in cloth:
frays at the toes of well-worn sneakers.
Origin of fray2
late Middle English
1375-1425; late Middle English fraien < Old French frayer, freiier to rub < Latin fricāre. See friction
Related forms
frayed, adjective
Word story
This is the story of the second fray, a word that means to cause deterioriation or wear on something, usually material, by rubbing it. Metaphorically, this can apply to less tangible things, such as our nerves or our tempers.
This fray is closely related to the word friction, as both have as a common ancestor the Latin fricāre, meaning “to rub.” It makes sense—given enough friction, things will begin to fray. But language isn’t always so neat. One early sense of fray that existed in the 1400s, but which has since fallen out of use, meant “to bruise” (as in, with our strokes we shall fray him). In a translation of Ovid’s Metamorphoses dating from the 1500s, this very same sense in a different context is used to mean “deflower” (deprive of virginity). Can we connect the dots from rub to bruise to deflower? Therein lies the rub.
Related Quotations
“[O]nce more he set to work on the laborious task of fraying through his ropes.“
—John Russell Fearn and Philip Harbottle, Liquid Death and Other Stories (2002)
“The heat and hunger frayed men's tempers.“
—Colin Falconer, When We Were Gods: A Novel of Cleopatra (2000)
“Tempers fray and arguments flare as motorists exchange expletives over the last parking space.“
—Andrew Holmes and Dan Wilson, Pains in Public: 50 People Most Likely to Drive You Completely Nuts! (2004) Unabridged
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British Dictionary definitions for fray-through


a noisy quarrel
a fight or brawl
an archaic word for fright
verb (archaic)
(transitive) to frighten
Word Origin
C14: short for affray


to wear or cause to wear away into tatters or loose threads, esp at an edge or end
to make or become strained or irritated
to rub or chafe (another object) or (of two objects) to rub against one another
a frayed place, as in cloth
Word Origin
C14: from French frayer to rub, from Latin fricāre; see friction, friable
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Word Origin and History for fray-through



mid-14c., "feeling of alarm," shortening of affray (q.v.; see also afraid). Meaning "a brawl, a fight" is from early 15c. (but late 14c. in Anglo-Latin). Fraymaker "fighter, brawler" is an excellent word from a 1530s statute.


"wear out by rubbing," c.1400, from Middle French frayer "to rub against," from Old French froiier "rub, scrape," from Latin fricare "to rub, rub down" (see friction). Related: Frayed; fraying.

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