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polite

American  
[puh-lahyt] / pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

politer, politest
  1. An image of the word polite as defined by showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    showing good manners toward others, as in behavior, speech, etc.; courteous; civil.

    a polite reply.

    Synonyms:
    gracious, well-bred
    Antonyms:
    rude
  2. refined or cultured.

    polite society.

    Synonyms:
    cultivated, courtly, poised, polished, urbane
  3. of a refined or elegant kind.

    polite learning.


polite British  
/ pəˈlaɪt /

adjective

  1. showing regard for others, in manners, speech, behaviour, etc; courteous

  2. cultivated or refined

    polite society

  3. elegant or polished

    polite letters

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

See civil.

Other Word Forms

Etymology

Origin of polite

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin polītus, past participle of polīre “to polish”; see polish

Explanation

Polite means showing regards for others in manners, speech, and behavior. Since you are a polite dinner guest, you thank the host for inviting you and, even though you think the chicken is not cooked to perfection, you tell her you are enjoying the meal. The adjective polite comes from the mid-13th century Latin politus, which means "refined" or "elegant." Showing consideration for others, using tact, and observing social norms are the qualities of being polite. The opposite of polite is rude. Because the poet E.E. Cummings thought imagination is most important, he wrote, “Knowledge is a polite word for dead but not buried imagination.”

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I called Erica Walker, an epidemiologist who runs Brown University’s Community Noise Lab, to rant at a polite volume about the speakerphone epidemic.

From The Wall Street Journal Sep. 15, 2026

There’s a hard actuarial truth to age-gap planning — and that, in the polite words of adviser Matthew Chancey, is that “sooner or later, one of you is taxed as a single.”

From MarketWatch Sep. 14, 2026

Are we all going to have the same dolphin-smooth faces soon, with filler and face-lifts simply the price of admission for participating in polite society?

From Slate Sep. 2, 2026

Be polite: Don't just launch in with "I'm on annual leave".

From BBC Aug. 17, 2026

I looked at Helena, eating biscuits much faster than was polite, and shook my head.

From "The Light in Hidden Places" by Sharon Cameron

Bravo responded with a politer version in “Top Chef.”

From Salon Jan. 30, 2026

An 18-year-old woman said ghosting was “a little bit politer way to reject someone than to directly say, ‘I do not want to chat with you.’

From Washington Post Jul. 25, 2022

And the video has so many star cameos it feels like a politer version of that misbegotten cover of “Imagine.”

From Slate Jun. 12, 2020

She admires various classical and modern dancers and choreographers and works, but her own dancers enact a brash and pitiless system of movement that disdains and subverts politer forms.

From The New Yorker Jun. 22, 2015

“I’d be politer, if I was you, to the man with the glamry blade.”

From "Impossible Creatures" by Katherine Rundell

Ebert, also 39, is the politest, a kind force who, 17 years later, remains the new guy after Johnson and Knobbe formed the band a year before.

From Los Angeles Times Jan. 22, 2026

The 20-year-old said she had only positive interactions with some of the men who live at the hotel, who she describes as "the politest people".

From BBC Jul. 24, 2025

“The politest way is to enlist the aid of the flight attendants,” says Jodi RR Smith, an etiquette consultant.

From Seattle Times Feb. 26, 2024

Castellanos is emblematic of these Phillies in that he is more slugger than defender, in the politest of terms.

From Washington Post Oct. 29, 2022

“I’m not sure how it’s possible that your outfit not only clashes but that it’s even louder than you,” Thorn said in her politest voice.

From "Witchlings" by Claribel A. Ortega

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