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[self-pit-ee, self-] /ˌsɛlfˈpɪt i, ˈsɛlf-/
pity for oneself, especially a self-indulgent attitude concerning one's own difficulties, hardships, etc.:
We must resist yielding to self-pity and carry on as best we can.
Origin of self-pity
First recorded in 1615-25
Related forms
self-pitying, adjective
self-pityingly, adverb Unabridged
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  • Each fragment throbbed with a hot sense of injustice and self-pity.

    To Love Margaret Peterson
  • The doctor noticed that his patient wasted no extra words in self-pity.

    The Wind Before the Dawn Dell H. Munger
  • But I had whined from the moment I met you, because I was sickly with egoism and loneliness and self-pity.

    The Gentleman From Indiana Booth Tarkington
  • Chief Botts' first flush of anger had now been replaced by self-pity.

    Summer Snow Storm Adam Chase
  • And as she looked, her eyes suddenly filled with tears—tears almost of self-pity.

British Dictionary definitions for self-pity


the act or state of pitying oneself, esp in an exaggerated or self-indulgent manner
Derived Forms
self-pitying, adjective
self-pityingly, adverb
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Word Origin and History for self-pity

1620s, from self- + pity (n.). Related: Self-pitying.

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper
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