wheedle
Americanverb (used with object)
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to endeavor to influence (a person) by smooth, flattering, or beguiling words or acts.
We wheedled him incessantly, but he would not consent.
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to persuade (a person) by such words or acts.
She wheedled him into going with her.
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to obtain (something) by artful persuasions.
I wheedled a new car out of my father.
verb (used without object)
verb
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to persuade or try to persuade (someone) by coaxing words, flattery, etc
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(tr) to obtain by coaxing and flattery
she wheedled some money out of her father
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
Conjugated Forms
Present
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have wheedledperfect
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has wheedledperfect 3rd person singular
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are wheedlingprogressive
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have been wheedlingperfect progressive
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am wheedlingprogressive 1st person singular
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has been wheedlingperfect progressive 3rd person singular
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is wheedlingprogressive 3rd person singular
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wheedlingparticiple
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wheedlessingular 3rd person
Past
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had wheedledperfect
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had been wheedlingperfect progressive
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were wheedlingprogressive plural
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wheedledparticiple
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was wheedlingprogressive singular
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wheedledsimple
Future
Etymology
Origin of wheedle
First recorded in 1655–65; origin uncertain
Explanation
To wheedle is to sweet talk, or flatter someone in the hopes of getting something in return. You might try to wheedle a meter maid into not giving you a parking ticket. Good luck with that. If you want your parents to do something for you that they don’t want to do, you may have to wheedle them with breakfast in bed and a shower of compliments in order to get what you want. To wheedle someone is to “charm” that person, though it’s a little more on the “suck up to” side than it is charming. The teacher’s pet might try to wheedle her way into a better grade.
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Example Sentences
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A mosquito spots the eminent man and zooms over to wheedle in his ear, but Bashō remains immobile.
From The Wall Street Journal • Oct. 9, 2025
He’s always looking to learn something, whether it’s from someone or just the cracks in their armor or the information he can wheedle out of somebody.
From Los Angeles Times • Aug. 15, 2025
The arsonists wheedle their way into his house with a combination of servile pleading, subtle bullying and appeals to Biedermann’s moral vanity.
From Seattle Times • Dec. 14, 2022
The more other people sit stone-faced, the more I turn into a clown, trying to wheedle just little bit of encouraging energy back from them.
From Slate • Feb. 26, 2022
He also didn’t argue or wheedle or cajole or ratchet the charm way up.
From "The Glass Castle" by Jeannette Walls
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