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plenty of fish

or plenty of fish in the sea or POF

[plen-tee uh v fish in th uh see]

What does plenty of fish mean?

There's plenty of fish (in the sea) means a single person still has lots of options out there for future partners. It's often said in consolation after a breakup—not that it always helps. The saying is the basis of the name of an online dating website, Plenty of Fish, often abbreviated as POF.

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Where does plenty of fish come from?

According to the Dictionary of Proverbs, there's plenty of fish in the sea can be found as early as 1573 in the form in the main sea, there's a good store of fish. (Still doesn't help.)

Often meant to encourage someone who's just been dumped or needs to get back in the dating scene, the proverb likens the dating field to the sea, brimming with endless fish, or potential, lasting partners that haven't been caught yet. It can also suggest that someone's ex wasn't so special or unique. (Trust us, they weren't.)

By 1862, the proverb had morphed into its modern form and was established enough to inspire a classic early American popular song from Stephen Foster, "There Are Plenty of Fish in the Sea":

If that's not your jam (Google it), how about Harry Connick Jr.? In "Easy for You to Say," he croons: "You say there are plenty of fish in the deep blue sea / That's easy for you to say." Or, Valerie June? In her 2013 "Somebody to Love," she riffs on the metaphor: "Did they tell you, there are / Plenty of fish in the sea / But you're drowning and cold / And you're feeling empty."

And, with this saying, it's all about the comeback.

In 2003, a Vancouver-based dating site alluded to the saying for its free dating website, Plenty of Fish, which, as of 2018, claims to be the largest of its kind with over 150-million registered users across the globe. Users commonly refer to it as POF. For many, the site and app has a reputation for being a "hookup" service and being abused for violent sexual crimes.

Who uses plenty of fish?

In everyday speech, people may kindly advise there are plenty of fish in the sea—or if they care even less about your breakup: Welp, there's plenty of fish!—to a friend, family member, or even themselves if going through a breakup or trying to get excited about dating.

As noted though, the saying has become a cliché, leading to all sorts of fish- and ocean-based jokes.

When plenty of fish is not linked to the common saying, it's probably referencing the popular dating site, Plenty of Fish.

Lastly, many people pun on plenty of fish when talking or writing about fishing, water sports, and fish population levels. Nice ...

For example

There are plenty of fish in the sea. Unfortunately, I live in the desert.

@FrenchStallion, November, 2016

Time to Get Real. There Aren’t Plenty of Fish in the Sea and It’s Our Fault

Aisling Maria Cronin, One Green Planet (headline), May, 2017

Who's this putting me on plenty of fish!!!!!! Let me know if he's successful maybe I can take some tips from him! 🙈

@AirForce_Carl, December, 2016

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