frenemy

American  

[fren-uh-mee] / ˈfrɛn ə mi /

Sometimes frienemy

noun

1. Informal. a person or group that is friendly toward another because the relationship brings benefits, but harbors feelings of resentment or rivalry.

   Clearly, turning the competition into frenemies is good for your business.

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Etymology

Origin of frenemy

First recorded in 1950-55; fr(iend) + enemy

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Explanation

A person who pretends to be your friend in order to steal your ideas, compete with you, or gain some sort of advantage over you is not really your friend at all — they're your frenemy. The word frenemy blends friend and enemy to describe someone who acts like your buddy but is actually a sneaky rival. It’s that confusing friendship where you’re not quite sure if they’re cheering you on or secretly trying to outshine you. For example, think of two classmates who seem friendly but are always trying to one-up each other in school — that's a classic frenemy situation!

Example Sentences

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frenemy

What next for her uneasy alliance with France's Emmanuel Macron, for so long her political "frenemy" but now increasingly important to her standing?

From BBC ● Jun. 26, 2026

“We’re done with her,” a frenemy says in the clip, which has been viewed 2.2 million times.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 17, 2026

In a CNN interview aired Sunday, Newsom was asked about the prospect of facing his longtime frenemy in a fight for the Democratic nomination.

From Los Angeles Times ● Feb. 25, 2026

While explaining that the paper used to occupy the whole building, employing over 1000 people, our frenemy Ken remarks, “That’s absolutely insane, if I do say so myself,” saucing each word with condescension.

From Salon ● Sep. 4, 2025

But the musical is really Elphaba’s story, with Grande’s Glinda along for the ride as her best frenemy.

From Los Angeles Times ● Jan. 1, 2025

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