them
Americanpronoun
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the objective case of plural they, used as a direct or indirect object.
We saw them yesterday. I gave them the books.
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Informal. (used instead of the pronoun they in the predicate after the verbto be ): No, that isn’t them.
It's them, across the street.
No, that isn’t them.
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Informal. (used instead of the pronoun their before a gerund).
The boys' parents objected to them hiking without adult supervision.
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the objective case of singular they, used as a direct or indirect object.
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(used to refer to a generic or unspecified person previously mentioned, about to be mentioned, or present in the immediate context): If an officer were to ask you that question directly, you would have to answer them honestly.
If you know anyone looking for a job, tell them to contact me.
If an officer were to ask you that question directly, you would have to answer them honestly.
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(used to refer to a specific or known person previously mentioned, about to be mentioned, or present in the immediate context).
I can’t believe your ex took your cat with them when they moved out.
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(used to refer to a nonbinary or gender-nonconforming person previously mentioned, about to be mentioned, or present in the immediate context).
Randi’s on vacation, so you can’t see them until next week.
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adjective
pronoun
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(objective) refers to things or people other than the speaker or people addressed
I'll kill them
what happened to them?
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a dialect word for themselves
they got them a new vice president
determiner
Grammar
Etymology
Origin of them
First recorded in 1150–1200; Middle English theim, theym, from Old Norse theim “them” (dative); replacing Middle English tham(e), Old English thǣm, thām; cf. they
Example Sentences
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Both parents are responsible for the costs of raising their children, even if they do not see them.
From BBC ● Aug. 17, 2026
In Torres del Limonar, a Cali residential complex that collapsed in Monday's earthquake, people pick through rubble to recover victims' belongings and return them to grieving families.
From Barron's ● Aug. 17, 2026
BBC Panorama meets parents who receive maintenance and those who pay it, and asks whether the system is failing both them and their children.
From BBC ● Aug. 17, 2026
It’s fun to match up with them in the regular season … kind of a measuring stick of where we’re at and kind of what we need to do to be better.”
From Los Angeles Times ● Aug. 16, 2026
They enlist the help of a friendly American sergeant, who allows them to slip away.
From "At Last She Stood" by Erin Entrada Kelly
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