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abusive

American  
[uh-byoo-siv] / əˈbju sɪv /

adjective

  1. using, containing, or characterized by harshly or coarsely insulting language.

    an abusive author; abusive remarks.

  2. treating badly or injuriously; mistreating, especially physically.

    his abusive handling of the horse.

  3. wrongly used; corrupt.

    an abusive exercise of power.


abusive British  
/ əˈbjuːsɪv /

adjective

  1. characterized by insulting or coarse language

  2. characterized by maltreatment

  3. incorrectly used; corrupt

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does abusive mean? Warning: This article involves discussion of the sensitive topics of physical and emotional abuse. If you or someone you know needs support, please visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline site to chat or call the hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Abusive is an adjective used to describe a person who abuses a person or an animal—mistreats and causes harm to them. It can also be used to describe such a person’s actions. The noun abuse refers to such mistreatment. A person who abuses someone can be called an abuser. The kind of abuse is sometimes specified before the word abusive, as in physically abusive and emotionally abuse. Example: Just because it’s not physical doesn’t mean it’s not abusive—emotional abuse can leave its own scars.

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Etymology

Origin of abusive

From the Late Latin word abūsīvus, dating back to 1575–85. See abuse, -ive


Explanation

People or actions that are hurtful or harmful are abusive. Being abusive is one of the worst things a parent — or anyone else — can do. Abusive is a strong word for serious actions. A parent asking you to take out the garbage is not being abusive, but a parent who hits you, locks you up, or yells at you repeatedly is being abusive, which is wrong and also illegal. Teachers can be abusive too, and so can bosses, co-workers, or other students. Anyone who has power has a lot of potential to be abusive in a physical or psychological (mental) way. One of the most important parts of being a parent, teacher, boss — or anyone else — is making sure you don't do anything abusive. When you hear the word abusive, think "Someone is being hurt."

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Anthropic has raised eyebrows by announcing it will ban users from "sustained and needless" abusive behaviour towards its AI.

From BBC ● Oct. 9, 2026

But what Anthropic would consider "abusive or cruel behaviour" towards its models remains unclear.

From BBC ● Oct. 9, 2026

The San Francisco-based AI lab updated its usage policy to include "a prohibition on sustained and needless abusive or cruel behavior toward our models."

From Barron's ● Oct. 8, 2026

It’s also where he met Lori Beth Graham, an evangelist and frequent speaker at the center who described herself as a survivor of an abusive marriage and a hard-partying lifestyle as a youth.

From Los Angeles Times ● Oct. 6, 2026

Mrs. Merritt was convinced that the Mosses had been abusive, but the foster care supervisor said the Mosses were model foster parents who even taught the training classes for other foster parents.

From "Three Little Words: A Memoir" by Ashley Rhodes-Courter

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