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affability

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[af-uh-bil-i-tee] / ˌæf əˈbɪl ɪ ti /
Rarely affableness

noun

  1. the quality of being pleasantly easy to approach and talk to; friendliness or warm politeness.

    Her affability and good nature endear her to all those acquainted with her, and put at ease anyone meeting her for the first time.


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Etymology

Origin of affability

First recorded in 1450–1500; from Middle French affabilité, from Latin affābilitāt-, stem of affābilitās, equivalent to affābil(is) “that can be spoken to, courteous” ( see affable ( def. )) + -itās -ity ( def. )

Explanation

Affability is the quality of being easy to talk to. If you walk into a party smiling and generally seeming up for whatever, your affability will draw people to you. Affability and intelligence will get you far in this world! To be affable is to be friendly and good-natured. The quality itself is called affability. Smiling and making jokes shows affability, and so does being friendly to strangers. Someone who tends to get along with everyone and has many friends has affability. In the Old French, it was affabilité, from the Latin root affabilis, for "approachable, courteous, or kind," and literally means "can be easily spoken to."

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For all his affability, there was also a more forbidding side to Wood as a businessman.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 31, 2026

His affability was undeniable, largely because Candy was as kindhearted and authentic in real life as he was onscreen.

From Salon Oct. 12, 2025

Gary was a lawyer whose affability never offended off the court, but on the court I found him pushy.

From Los Angeles Times May 23, 2025

And Johnson, who devotes “two to four hours a week” to his project, has just the right mix of passion and affability to nudge labels in the right direction.

From BBC Aug. 24, 2024

“Not if I can help it. This occasion shall not entirely pass without that affability on your part.—May I, as an old friend and well-wisher? May I?”

From "Great Expectations" by Charles Dickens

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