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bossy

1 American  
[baw-see, bos-ee] / ˈbɔ si, ˈbɒs i /

adjective

bossier, comparative bossiest superlative
  1. given to ordering people about; overly authoritative; domineering.

    Synonyms:
    abrasive, overbearing, dictatorial, officious, high-handed

bossy 2 American  
[baw-see, bos-ee] / ˈbɔ si, ˈbɒs i /

adjective

bossier, comparative bossiest superlative
  1. studded with knoblike or projecting parts.


bossy 3 American  
[bos-ee, baw-see] / ˈbɒs i, ˈbɔ si /

noun

bossies plural
  1. a familiar name for a cow or calf.


bossy 1 British  
/ ˈbɒsɪ /

adjective

  1. informal domineering, overbearing, or authoritarian

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

bossy 2 British  
/ ˈbɒsɪ /

adjective

  1. (of furniture) ornamented with bosses

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of bossy1

An Americanism dating back to 1880–85; boss 1 + -y 1

Origin of bossy2

First recorded in 1535–45; boss 2 + -y 1

Origin of bossy3

An Americanism dating back to 1835–45; boss 3 + -y 2

Explanation

Someone who's bossy has a tendency to order other people around. Your bossy friend might tell you what clothes you should wear on your date as well as which restaurant you ought to eat at. Bossy people enjoy telling you what to do. Your bossy roommate might instruct you to clean the kitchen immediately, and a bossy kid could happily spend an afternoon ordering his babysitter to push him on a swing. While the 16th century meaning was "swelling and rounded, decorated with buttons," by the late 1800s bossy meant "domineering," from the Dutch baas, or "master." It's also a popular name for a cow, from the Latin bos, "cow."

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The two delight in discovering each other’s cultural differences, even if the alien is occasionally bossy and annoying, say when Rocky bleats “Dirty! Dirty!” upon entering Grace’s astral man cave.

From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 18, 2026

This may sound bossy, but in the absence of clear communication, we tend to overanalyze, says Sara Jane Ho, an etiquette expert and host of the Netflix show “Mind Your Manners.”

From MarketWatch • Jan. 29, 2026

"I'm not a Conservative voter to start with, but I find him to be a big bossy boy," she said.

From BBC • Jan. 15, 2026

One small, slightly bossy note: leaf shape matters.

From Salon • Dec. 16, 2025

And then in his bossy, comforting voice, he explained things.

From "In the Time of the Butterflies" by Julia Alvarez

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