charity begins at home

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1. Be generous to your family before helping others. For example, She spends hours and hours on volunteer work and neglects the children, forgetting that charity begins at home. This proverb was first recorded in English, in slightly different form, in John Wycliffe's Of Prelates (c. 1380); “Charity should begin at himself.”

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charity begins at home

It’s an old saying, but charity begins at home, meaning that children learn the values of decency — do unto others — from their parent-leaders within the family’s miniature social system.

From Washington Post ● Apr. 24, 2018

Since charity begins at home, he can almost always point to the many benefits seniority has brought his own district.

From Time Magazine Archive

Material, like charity, begins at home; nor need you suppose that nothing ever happens down here.

From The Shadow of the Rope by Hornung, E. W. (Ernest William)

I have heard that charity begins at home, and I am sure we are poor enough.

From Dramatic Reader for Lower Grades by Holbrook, Florence

Large sums of money were given him to be used for charity, but Philip Holt believed too strongly in the theory that charity begins at home.

From Madge Morton's Victory by Chalmers, Amy D. V.