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commiserate

American  
[kuh-miz-uh-reyt] / kəˈmɪz əˌreɪt /

verb (used without object)

commiserated, commiserating
  1. to sympathize (usually followed bywith ).

    They commiserated with him over the loss of his job.


verb (used with object)

commiserated, commiserating
  1. to feel or express sorrow or sympathy for; empathize with; pity.

commiserate British  
/ kəˈmɪzəˌreɪt /

verb

  1. to feel or express sympathy or compassion (for)

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Other Word Forms

  • commiserable adjective
  • commiseration noun
  • commiserative adjective
  • commiseratively adverb
  • commiserator noun
  • noncommiserative adjective
  • noncommiseratively adverb
  • uncommiserated adjective
  • uncommiserating adjective
  • uncommiserative adjective
  • uncommiseratively adverb

Etymology

Origin of commiserate

First recorded in 1585–95; from Latin commiserātus (past participle of commiserārī ), equivalent to com- com- + miser “pitiable” ( misery ) + -ātus -ate 1

Explanation

When you commiserate with your buddies, you're sharing your lousy feelings. People who commiserate have the same negative feelings about something. Take a look at how commiserate is built: it's from Latin "com-," which means "together with," and miserārī, "to pity." Put them together, and you get "to pity one another, commiserate." When you commiserate, you and your fellow commiserators talk about how badly you're all feeling. After the layoffs, we all went to the bar to commiserate.

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When Bill Ackman vented over $2 million, fellow billionaires rushed to commiserate.

From MarketWatch • Apr. 10, 2026

While a dejected England leave for home well beaten and under mounting pressure, Smith told TNT Sports he planned to have "a jar" with counterpart Stokes and commiserate.

From Barron's • Jan. 8, 2026

Their goodwill is awkward, as it must be when an in-group member tries to commiserate with “the other,” but it is, nonetheless, sympathy, which is to say concern.

From The Wall Street Journal • Dec. 21, 2025

Explaining why he wanted to meet Dame Penny, the former elected member of East Hampshire District Council said he wanted to commiserate with her over her leadership bid.

From BBC • Nov. 14, 2025

I can, however, commiserate with them on the situations they were forced to endure.

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