Dictionary.com
Thesaurus.com
Synonyms

commiserate

American  
[kuh-miz-uh-reyt] / kəˈmɪz əˌreɪt /

verb (used without object)

commiserated, commiserating
  1. to sympathize (usually followed bywith ).

    They commiserated with him over the loss of his job.


verb (used with object)

commiserated, commiserating
  1. to feel or express sorrow or sympathy for; empathize with; pity.

commiserate British  
/ kəˈmɪzəˌreɪt /

verb

  1. to feel or express sympathy or compassion (for)

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Other Word Forms

Etymology

Origin of commiserate

First recorded in 1585–95; from Latin commiserātus (past participle of commiserārī ), equivalent to com- com- + miser “pitiable” ( see misery) + -ātus -ate 1

Explanation

When you commiserate with your buddies, you're sharing your lousy feelings. People who commiserate have the same negative feelings about something. Take a look at how commiserate is built: it's from Latin "com-," which means "together with," and miserārī, "to pity." Put them together, and you get "to pity one another, commiserate." When you commiserate, you and your fellow commiserators talk about how badly you're all feeling. After the layoffs, we all went to the bar to commiserate.

Keep Reading on Vocabulary.com

Vocabulary lists containing commiserate

Example Sentences

Examples are provided to illustrate real-world usage of words in context. Any opinions expressed do not reflect the views of Dictionary.com.

Commiserate with them to get the unvarnished truth.

From Inc • Apr. 1, 2011

"Commiserate my position and send for Miss Meredith," I prayed.

From One of My Sons by Green, Anna Katharine

Commiserate to the erring she was Regina angelorum, the angel queen.

From Historia Amoris: A History of Love, Ancient and Modern by Saltus, Edgar

Commiserate, kom-iz′ėr-āt, v.t. to feel for the miseries of another: to pity: to condole with.—adj.

From Chambers's Twentieth Century Dictionary (part 1 of 4: A-D) by Various

He saw no reason why his friends should Commiserate him because of the endless handshaking.

From Lincoln; An Account of his Personal Life, Especially of its Springs of Action as Revealed and Deepened by the Ordeal of War by Stephenson, Nathaniel W. (Nathaniel Wright)