cupboard love

American  

noun

1. a personal attachment that appears to be motivated by love but in fact stems from the hope of gain.

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cupboard love British  

noun

1. a show of love inspired only by some selfish or greedy motive

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Other Word Forms

• cupboard lover
  noun

Etymology

Origin of cupboard love

First recorded in 1750–60

Example Sentences

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cupboard love

Ancient Greeks had no word for cupboard love, but, undoubtedly, this is a love the vast majority of animal pets may feel for us.

From The Guardian ● Jul. 16, 2019

I won't pretend to say, but it evidently is intended to suggest cupboard love, and there is a portentously large pitcher of ale in reserve on the bench.

From Line and Form (1900) by Crane, Walter

"It's cupboard love as brings you out so sharp," he said, his voice resounding in the cold darkness.

From The Rainbow by Lawrence, D. H. (David Herbert)

"It's all cupboard love with them," he said.

From The Belton Estate by Trollope, Anthony

Moreover, love and respect move in the direction of activity, and if everything comes the child's way there will be little love, except "cupboard love," going the other way.

From Rural Life and the Rural School by Kennedy, Joseph