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despairing

American  
[dih-spair-ing] / dɪˈspɛər ɪŋ /

adjective

  1. given to despair or hopelessness.

    Antonyms:
    hopeful
  2. indicating despair.

    a despairing look.


despairing British  
/ dɪˈspɛərɪŋ /

adjective

  1. marked by or resulting from despair; hopeless or desperate

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does despairing mean? Despairing is an adjective that describes people who are experiencing despair—complete hopelessness. The word despair is also commonly used as a verb meaning to lose all hope, and despairing comes from the continuous tense (-ing form) of the verb. A despairing person is usually someone who is deeply sad about something that has happened or that hasn’t happened—something usually triggers the despair. This is especially the case in serious and very negative situations that involve finality, such as death or a devastating loss in a political election. It often implies that one is giving up—that they believe there is nothing more to be done to make things better. Despairing can also be used to describe things that involve or show despair, as in a despairing look. Example: The despairing players stared in disbelief at the scoreboard, which showed an insurmountable lead with only minutes left.

Synonym Usage

See hopeless.

Other Word Forms

Etymology

Origin of despairing

First recorded in 1585–95; despair + -ing 2

Example Sentences

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Still, Ohm is more despairing and miserable than any of the wretched worms Scott has acted to date.

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 30, 2026

Tyler Smith made a despairing dive to try to block his shot but the assistant referee raised his flag immediately to signal the goal.

From BBC Apr. 25, 2026

Any freelance journalist who finds herself despairing over the paltry rates that today’s assigning editors are offering might want to familiarize herself with Fanny Fern before her next negotiation.

From The Wall Street Journal Jan. 27, 2026

Guardiola struck a despairing tone as he discussed the reasons for City's slump.

From Barron's Jan. 20, 2026

This may yet be his salvation, for, if all go well, it will tide him over the despairing period; he will then, in a kind of way, wake again to the realities of life.

From "Dracula" by Bram Stoker

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