don't ask

Idioms  

1. A phrase used to fend off questions about a situation one finds awkward, unpleasant, or unsatisfactory. For example, How did we do in the bridge tournament? Don't ask! [Colloquial; 1960s] For a similar phrase, see forget it.

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don't ask

The writer lived in this building, well before it was known for its oxtail, and the restaurant honors him by displaying a dusty bottle rack said to be his, I don’t ask.

From Salon ● Jun. 23, 2026

I’m more on the party side of things, so they don’t ask me about, “Hey, we’re gonna make this tweak to the menu — what do you think about it?”

From Los Angeles Times ● Jun. 17, 2026

We feel grateful but don’t express it, need help but don’t ask, could express support but don’t.

From The Wall Street Journal ● May 29, 2026

"We don't ask people to tick boxes - they have a conversation with an AI," Fontaine explains.

From BBC ● Apr. 30, 2026

“I don’t know. But don’t ask him, okay? That’s so embarrassing,” I plead.

From "Amina's Song" by Hena Khan