find oneself
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Become aware of what one wishes and can best do in life. For example, At last he's found himself—he really loves teaching . The same idea was sometimes put as to find one's feet , transferring a baby's new ability to stand or walk to a person becoming conscious of his or her abilities. [Late 1800s]
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Discover where one is; also, how one is feeling. For example, He suddenly found himself on the right street , or To my surprise I find myself agreeing with you . [Mid-1400s]
Example Sentences
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While it may be an urban myth, it is common to find oneself dodging toddlers careering around on two wheels.
From BBC • Nov. 29, 2022
There is an intimate sense of longing that is interlaced within the fabric her work: a desire to feel, to experience, and to find oneself, which makes her performances so captivating.
From Salon • Jun. 20, 2022
That one may find oneself talking back to the screen, pointing out whatever the characters are slow to understand, is just part of the game.
From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 3, 2022
It also became clear that one of the most lethal places to find oneself was in Melania’s crosshairs.
From Washington Post • Jun. 12, 2020
It was no crime to find oneself attracted to another, she wrote, or to believe what one felt was love.
From "Snow Falling on Cedars: A Novel" by David Guterson
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