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find oneself

Idioms  
  1. Become aware of what one wishes and can best do in life. For example, At last he's found himself—he really loves teaching . The same idea was sometimes put as to find one's feet , transferring a baby's new ability to stand or walk to a person becoming conscious of his or her abilities. [Late 1800s]

  2. Discover where one is; also, how one is feeling. For example, He suddenly found himself on the right street , or To my surprise I find myself agreeing with you . [Mid-1400s]


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As she wrote in 2010, “It isn’t easy to suddenly find oneself alone in the room.”

From New York Times

To read these books is to find oneself asking what constitutes a happy ending when order cannot be restored.

From Los Angeles Times

We were on the same journey that all queer people are on — the journey of finding oneself and being found.

From Los Angeles Times

To abide in these pages is to find oneself happily detained in awe.

From Washington Post

Losing and finding oneself is central to the book and its characters.

From New York Times