- present participle of flatter.
flattering
Americanadjective
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enhancing the appearance of a person or thing, as by highlighting pleasing features or making less pleasing ones inconspicuous.
You'll receive expert advice on the most flattering shades of makeup for your complexion.
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causing a person or thing to seem better or more attractive than is really the case.
She avoids the weakness of many memoirs by not creating an overly flattering picture of herself or her parents.
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pleasing or gratifying someone by attention or compliments.
The publisher sent me a very flattering invitation to write a study of Robert Browning.
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praising or complimenting someone insincerely or excessively, especially in an attempt to curry favor.
I’m a remarkably accurate judge of people’s character, and am not misled by flattering words or nice clothes.
noun
Other Word Forms
Etymology
Origin of flattering
First recorded in 1200–50; flatter 1 ( def. ) + -ing 2 ( def. ) for the adjective senses; flatter 1 ( def. ) + -ing 1 ( def. ) for the noun sense
Explanation
Something that's flattering shows you in your best, most attractive light. When you're having your photograph taken, you might wear your most flattering outfit. The softly lit living room mirror is usually more flattering to your face than the harsh fluorescent light of a public restroom. You also might tell your friend that her favorite cashmere sweater is much more flattering than her saggy old gray sweatshirt. Flattering comes from flatter, from an Old French root, flater, "to deceive," but also "to throw or fling to the ground."
Example Sentences
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WSJ | Buy Side: The best women’s shorts have flattering and versatile silhouettes for staying comfortable in the summer heat.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 13, 2026
"I find it flattering that someone of his stature has seen something in what I do as being interesting," Taylor responds.
From BBC ● Jun. 12, 2026
He decided to give classic jerseys a whirl, transforming them into more flattering silhouettes that accentuate a curvy torso.
From Los Angeles Times ● Jun. 5, 2026
It is probably the most personally flattering work of presidential art ever commissioned.
From Slate ● Jun. 2, 2026
In 1936 Hubble produced a popular book called The Realm of the Nebulae, which explained in flattering style his own considerable achievements.
From "A Short History of Nearly Everything" by Bill Bryson
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