The practice of compromise, as in Every contract involves some give and take . This expression was first recorded in 1778, although the verbal idiom, to give and take , was used from the early 1500s.
the practice of dealing by compromise or mutual concession; cooperation.
good-natured exchange of talk, ideas, etc.
mutual concessions, shared benefits, and cooperation
a smoothly flowing exchange of ideas and talk
The practice of compromise, as in Every contract involves some give and take . This expression was first recorded in 1778, although the verbal idiom, to give and take , was used from the early 1500s.
Lively exchange of ideas or conversation, as in The legislature is famous for raucous give and take . [Second half of 1800s]
First recorded in 1760–70
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Every member of this cast holds their own, granted, but Morgan and Radcliffe’s onscreen give-and-take earns Arthur’s slow, steady acceptance into Reggie’s weird, lovely family dynamic.
From Salon ● Jun. 20, 2026
The European Union, with its cumbersome culture of consensus-building and give-and-take, was the most elaborate expression of that political way of life.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jan. 19, 2026
Whatever the reason, it’s a shame that one of the couple’s final collaborative works — a very sweet and realistic tale of give-and-take — is all but missing from the documentary about their relationship.
From Salon ● Oct. 18, 2025
Left behind was a tremendous give-and-take on a tough U.S.
From Seattle Times ● Jun. 1, 2024
Something about their easy give-and-take makes me tired.
From "You Bring the Distant Near" by Mitali Perkins
Roberts offers more give and take in negotiations than other executives and was directly involved in discussions about Comcast’s cloud deal, Jassy said.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 2, 2026
Sam and Mary give and take in equal measure, wrapped in a continuum made from red silk.
From Salon ● Apr. 24, 2026
The ride’s namesake song plays give and take with “Jingle Bells” and seasonal adornments adorably enliven the leisurely boat ride with even more cheer.
From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 19, 2025
“He’s got gas and nuclear and renewables. To understand the give and take of all of those things” is particularly valuable, he adds.
From Barron's ● Oct. 17, 2025
He had a tightrope walker’s feel for the land beneath him—its surface tension, the give and take of things.
From "The Things They Carried" by Tim O'Brien
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