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hair shirt

American  

noun

  1. a garment of coarse haircloth, worn next to the skin as a penance by ascetics and penitents.

  2. self-imposed punishment, suffering, sacrifice, or penance.


hair shirt British  

noun

  1. a shirt made of haircloth worn next to the skin as a penance

  2. a secret trouble or affliction

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hair shirt Idioms  
  1. A self-imposed punishment or penance, as in I apologized a dozen times—do you want me to wear a hair shirt forever? This term, mentioned from the 13th century on, alludes to wearing a coarse, scratchy hair shirt, the practice of religious ascetics. Its figurative use dates from the mid-1800s.


Etymology

Origin of hair shirt

1350–1400; cf. hair