Synonyms

hem and haw

Idioms

Be hesitant and indecisive; avoid committing oneself, as in When asked about their wedding date, she hemmed and hawed, or The President hemmed and hawed about new Cabinet appointments. This expression imitates the sounds of clearing one's throat. [Late 1700s]

Example Sentences

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Most real estate TV quests are partially faked; many times, the couples have already bought the home they pretend to hem and haw over before choosing it in the end.

From Salon • Mar. 26, 2021

“People hem and haw and they say, ‘I should suck this up,’” Ms. Bonior said.

From New York Times • Nov. 5, 2019

He’d rather hem and haw, leaving everybody in limbo, than deliver bad news.

From Washington Post • Nov. 29, 2017

Amid all the door-knocking last weekend, most of what voters did was hem and haw.

From Los Angeles Times • Dec. 24, 2015

Hemi is half, hemisphere, hemmed-in, hemlock, hem and haw.

From "The Poisonwood Bible" by Barbara Kingsolver

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