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hot mess

American

noun

Slang.

a person or thing that is a mess, as in being disorganized, confused, or untidy, yet remains attractive or appealing.

He’s a hot mess when he wakes up in the morning!

Usage

What does hot mess mean? Hot mess is used to describe a particularly disorganized person or chaotic situation. In some uses, a person described as a hot mess is attractive but just barely keeping it together.

Etymology

Origin of hot mess

First recorded in 1895–1900

Example Sentences

Examples are provided to illustrate real-world usage of words in context. Any opinions expressed do not reflect the views of Dictionary.com.

Since the start of the Iran war, the conventional wisdom has been that the whole thing is a hot mess.

From MarketWatch • Apr. 11, 2026

Ambassador Fried says last week's 28-point US plan was a "hot mess" but that the impetus behind it is real.

From BBC • Nov. 26, 2025

Nikki is a hot mess who knows exactly what needs to be done.

From Los Angeles Times • Apr. 3, 2025

The film closes with a Vance voice-over explaining that “we choose every day who we become,” a statement that feels like it is pointed directly at the “choices” of hot mess Bev.

From Salon • Jul. 20, 2024

I’m saying that because he’s a hot mess.

From "The Manifestor Prophecy" by Angie Thomas

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