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incongruous

American  
[in-kong-groo-uhs] / ɪnˈkɒŋ gru əs /

adjective

  1. out of keeping or place; inappropriate; unbecoming.

    an incongruous effect; incongruous behavior.

    Synonyms:
    absurd, ludicrous, ridiculous, unsuitable, discrepant
    Antonyms:
    appropriate, becoming
  2. not harmonious in character; inconsonant; lacking harmony of parts.

    an incongruous mixture of architectural styles.

    Synonyms:
    discordant, inharmonious
    Antonyms:
    consonant
  3. inconsistent.

    actions that were incongruous with their professed principles.

    Synonyms:
    contradictory, contrary
    Antonyms:
    consistent

incongruous British  
/ ɪnˈkɒŋɡrʊəs /

adjective

  1. incompatible with (what is suitable); inappropriate

  2. containing disparate or discordant elements or parts

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Related Words

See inconsistent.

Other Word Forms

  • incongruously adverb
  • incongruousness noun

Etymology

Origin of incongruous

First recorded in 1605–15, incongruous is from the Latin word incongruus “inconsistent.” See in- 3, congruous

Explanation

Something that's incongruous is inconsistent or incompatible with something else. Remember that Sesame Street song "One of these things is not like the other"? They were talking about that one thing being incongruous. If we break it down into its Latin roots, incongruous is formed by adding in, meaning “not," to congruous, which means “suitable, proper.” So, something that is incongruous is "not suitable or proper" — in other words, not in harmony with everything else. That's why burping at the dinner table could be called incongruous behavior: it's not proper and certainly doesn't go well with the main course.

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It is a somewhat incongruous location for a visit by Pope Leo who, like Francis, has prioritised the poor and marginalised.

From Barron's • Mar. 25, 2026

It seems completely incongruous a club the size of Rangers, its life spent under a gigantic microscope, could possibly move quietly into contention, but that's the reality.

From BBC • Jan. 25, 2026

Julie is intended as a fairly good-natured, warmly attractive and decidedly incongruous gunslinger.

From The Wall Street Journal • Nov. 18, 2025

They called the place La Ciénega, a corruption of an Indigenous word and an incongruous name — the swamp — in a desert wasteland.

From Los Angeles Times • Nov. 6, 2025

He was wearing a combat helmet, which looked incongruous with his fine sports clothes and Italian shoes.

From "The House of the Spirits: A Novel" by Isabel Allende