it's your funeral

Idioms  

1. Also,. One must take the consequences of one's destructive or foolish actions. This expression is used to show one's contempt or lack of sympathy for another's actions. For example, Suppose they do get pulled over for taking a joy ride—It's their funeral, or I don't care whether you quit your job—it's not my funeral. This hyperbolic term implies that an action is so bad it will result in death. [Slang; mid-1800s]

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Example Sentences

There were things on that episode where a lot of people were going, ‘OK, it’s your funeral.’

From Los Angeles Times

The Strangling Figs shook and seemed to sigh deeply, as if saying, “It’s your funeral,” before moving aside and letting them in.

From Literature

The New York Post, owned by conservative media tycoon Rupert Murdoch, featured a picture of House Speaker Nancy Pelosi and the headline “It’s Your Funeral.”

From Seattle Times

The tabloid put the news of President Trump’s impeachment along the top of the front page before declaring “Swamp mistress Pelosi dresses in black for historic vote,” with the message, “It’s your funeral.”

From Fox News

The New York Post leads the pro-Trump camp, attacking House Speaker, Nancy Pelosi with the headline: “It’s your funeral”, adding that “Swamp mistress Pelosi dresses in black for historic vote”.

From The Guardian