it's your funeral

Idioms  

1. Also,. One must take the consequences of one's destructive or foolish actions. This expression is used to show one's contempt or lack of sympathy for another's actions. For example, Suppose they do get pulled over for taking a joy ride—It's their funeral, or I don't care whether you quit your job—it's not my funeral. This hyperbolic term implies that an action is so bad it will result in death. [Slang; mid-1800s]

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Example Sentences

There were things on that episode where a lot of people were going, ‘OK, it’s your funeral.’

From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 19, 2023

Of course, this ain't my affair nor nothing, because you got the rheumatism and it's your funeral.

From Potash & Perlmutter Their Copartnership Ventures and Adventures by Glass, Montague

Somehow I take stock in you, though I'm afraid it's your funeral you're going to.

From Frank Merriwell's Backers The Pride of His Friends by Standish, Burt L.

Of course—" "Oh, bring her along if you want to," laughed Dick, "only it's your funeral.

From The Silent Places by White, Stewart Edward

Very rash of you both, but it's your funeral, not mine.

From The Obstacle Race by Dell, Ethel M. (Ethel May)