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discourtesy

American  
[dis-kur-tuh-see] / dɪsˈkɜr tə si /

noun

discourtesies plural
  1. lack or breach of courtesy; incivility; rudeness.

  2. a discourteous or impolite act.


discourtesy British  
/ dɪsˈkɜːtɪsɪ /

noun

  1. bad manners; rudeness

  2. a rude remark or act

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of discourtesy

First recorded in 1545–55; dis- 1 + courtesy

Explanation

Discourtesy is acting in a rude or thoughtless way. If you yell orders at your restaurant server and leave him a small tip, you're treating him with extreme discourtesy. The noun discourtesy is a formal way to say "rudeness" or "disrespect." Cutting in line, interrupting others, chewing with your mouth wide open, being late for an important meeting — these are all examples of discourtesy. Courtesy means "elegance of manners" or "politeness," from a root meaning "courtly manners." When you add the prefix dis-, "the opposite of," you get discourtesy.

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"Uttering such words under the guise of a 'joke' or humour does not mitigate this discourtesy displayed toward our women and a specific segment of our society," he wrote.

From Barron's Jun. 6, 2026

A vice foreign minister called in Chinese Ambassador to South Korea Xing Haiming and strongly protested what South Korea called "diplomatic discourtesy", the South Korean foreign ministry said in a statement.

From Reuters Apr. 20, 2023

My Gove apologised and said “no discourtesy was intended” when he spoke about the approval of the Woodhouse Colliery scheme in Cumbria - the first new UK deep mine in decades.

From BBC Dec. 8, 2022

Between January 2017 and November 2020, 829 complaints, internal and external, were lodged against Tacoma police employees, most for unsatisfactory performance or discourtesy.

From Seattle Times May 8, 2022

It was accounted great discourtesy to put any question to a guest before his wants had been satisfied.

From "Mythology: Timeless Tales of Gods and Heroes" by Edith Hamilton

The movie chokes on its own dreary discourtesies.

From Seattle Times Apr. 6, 2011

Many knowing Burmese were forced to hide a snicker when they heard that Chou had filed an official complaint about discourtesies appearing in the Burmese press.

From Time Magazine Archive

But it was the first air exposition that New York has had for almost eight years and 20,000 persons daily endured the active discourtesies of Grand Central Palace Exposition factotums to see the planes.

From Time Magazine Archive

You note the weaknesses of officialdom, the discourtesies, the disregard and lack of respect for the people.

From Time Magazine Archive

We must not be provoked thereto by any revengeful disposition, or rancorous spleen, in regard to any injuries or discourtesies received. 

From Sermons on Evil-Speaking by Barrow, Isaac

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