lagom

American  

[lo-gawm] / ˈlɒˌgɔm /

noun

1. the principle of living a balanced, moderately paced, low-fuss life: those who achieve lagom routinely take time to appreciate their surroundings, take several breaks during the workday, dress from a minimal and versatile wardrobe, and treat others with respect and kindness.

   After spending two fabulous months with my in-laws at their home in Stockholm, I’ve decided I need to bring some lagom into my hectic American life.

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Etymology

Origin of lagom

First recorded in 1935–40; from Swedish: literally, “just right, just the thing, in moderation,” dative plural of lag “law,” used as an adverb

Example Sentences

Since then, hygge, lagom, döstädning and most recently, gezelligheid have entered our collective consciousness, going much further than deciding whether to keep your high school memorabilia.

From Seattle Times • Dec. 1, 2022

But there's one recipe handed down from our Swedish side — through four generations now — that epitomizes lagom, mys and family to me.

From Salon • Nov. 22, 2021

The practice, which traces back to the 1600s, is part of the lagom movement, or the concept of “not too much, not too little — just enough.”

From Washington Post • Jan. 14, 2020

So, to live the lagom way, invite your friends round for fika, spend time in nature, give away items that don’t add to your pleasure in life — and, most important, help a neighbor.

From New York Times • Jan. 23, 2018

“A lot of Swedes hate lagom too,” Henriksson, the teacher, explains.

From Slate • Sep. 20, 2013