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manipulative

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[muh-nip-yuh-ley-tiv, -yuh-luh-tiv] / məˈnɪp yəˌleɪ tɪv, -yə lə tɪv /

adjective

  1. influencing or attempting to influence the behavior or emotions of others for one’s own purposes.

    a manipulative boss.

  2. of or relating to manipulation of objects or parts of the body; serving to manipulate.

    spinal manipulative therapy.


noun

  1. Usually manipulatives any of various objects or materials that students can touch and move around in order to help them learn mathematical and other concepts.

    the use of blocks, flashcards, and other manipulatives in the classroom.

Other Word Forms

  • manipulatively adverb

Etymology

Origin of manipulative

First recorded in 1815–20; manipulat(e) ( def. ) + -ive ( def. )

Explanation

A manipulative person uses passive, sneaky strategies to get what they want, such as saying "Aren't you lucky to have all that chocolate!" when what they really want is for you to offer them one. Manipulative comes from the Latin word manus for "hand," and originally the English words that sprang from it like manipulate and manipulation referred to skill in physically handling objects by hand. The psychological sense we now associate with manipulative came much later on, but as anyone who has been successfully manipulated well knows, it often feels like you've been brilliantly manhandled.

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The manipulative Jean, meanwhile, counsels both young women and has cast Mary in the role of her substitute daughter.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 27, 2026

Sentencing the three on Tuesday at Southwark Crown Court, Judge Christopher Hehir called Dale a "thoroughly devious and untruthful and manipulative young woman".

From BBC • Jan. 20, 2026

"They simply did not care and separated the mother and child," Enira Bronitskaya, of Human Constanta, said, calling the process "manipulative."

From Barron's • Jan. 15, 2026

The horrors of the 1988 chapter open the door for a plot development that risks coming across as manipulative.

From Los Angeles Times • Jan. 9, 2026

But the Erudite are as meticulous as they are manipulative, so they wouldn’t leave it up to chance.

From "Divergent" by Veronica Roth