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not have the heart to

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  1. Be unable to bring oneself to say or do something, as in He didn't have the heart to tell her the cat had died. [Mid-1600s] Also see have a heart.


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When she heard explosions, she ran to her father and asked what was happening, he said, but he did not have the heart to tell her, saying they were fireworks for a wedding.

From Barron's ● Aug. 16, 2026

Deontay Wilder believes Anthony Joshua does not "have the heart" to fight him, but says a bout between the former heavyweight world champions is closer than it ever has been.

From BBC ● Dec. 18, 2023

I do not have the heart to break up with her because I feel obliged to look after her.

From Slate ● Nov. 7, 2019

It's offensive to an entire audience who came of age with these women and who remain breathtakingly loyal, and out of nostalgic affection may not have the heart to turn away from them.

From Salon ● May 27, 2010

Penelope did not have the heart to tell her that it had all been a trick, but she and Simon exchanged private, knowing looks.

From "The Unseen Guest" by Maryrose Wood

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