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not have the heart to

Idioms  
  1. Be unable to bring oneself to say or do something, as in He didn't have the heart to tell her the cat had died. [Mid-1600s] Also see have a heart.


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Meanwhile, she said she did not have the heart to tell the family because they were "so down and so desperate".

From BBC • Apr. 16, 2022

I do not have the heart to break up with her because I feel obliged to look after her.

From Slate • Nov. 7, 2019

Now, I have no religious convictions at all, but I did not have the heart to evict Mary.”

From New York Times • Apr. 8, 2011

It's offensive to an entire audience who came of age with these women and who remain breathtakingly loyal, and out of nostalgic affection may not have the heart to turn away from them.

From Salon • May 27, 2010

She did not have the heart to say it.

From "A Clash of Kings" by George R.R. Martin

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