Dear John
Americannoun
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a letter from a woman informing her boyfriend or fiancé that she is ending their relationship or informing her husband that she wants a divorce.
Nothing is worse for a soldier's morale than getting a Dear John.
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any letter terminating a relationship.
Etymology
Origin of Dear John
First recorded in 1940–45
Example Sentences
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But not long after Mr. Angeloni opened his account, he got his own Dear John letter.
From New York Times ● Dec. 30, 2023
"Dear John" is like a handwritten personal note to Mayer.
From Salon ● Sep. 17, 2023
He chose Dear John, sung by Eddi Reader but written by Kirsty MacColl about the end of her marriage.
From BBC ● Jan. 22, 2022
Did anybody else find it terribly coincidental that Urban Meyer got a Dear John letter from the Jaguars on college football’s National Letter of Intent Day?
From Seattle Times ● Dec. 17, 2021
I had been right about her writing him a Dear John letter, and it really messed him up.
From "Fallen Angels" by Walter Dean Myers
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