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self-blame

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[self-blaym] / ˈsɛlfˈbleɪm /

noun

  1. the act or attitude of blaming oneself for misfortune.


verb (used without object)

self-blamed, self-blaming
  1. to blame oneself.

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I am also sensing some self-blame and regret.

From MarketWatch ● Jul. 24, 2026

RainLily's Tsang said that survivors often feel intense shame and self-blame.

From Barron's ● Jul. 20, 2026

"I was having arguments with myself. A lot of self-blame, a lot of guilt, and a lot of tiredness."

From BBC ● Oct. 19, 2025

They may also be cycling through regret, internalized shame and self-blame for the relationship ending.

From Los Angeles Times ● Mar. 1, 2024

For one can assume too much sometimes, in fits of conceited self-blame.

From "Atonement" by Ian McEwan

"Her appearing disheveled and hysterical and really self-blaming, and him appearing flippant and blaming her as well," Glenn said.

From Fox News ● Oct. 5, 2021

The details reinforced how unrealistic some of her self-blaming notions had been.

From Slate ● Apr. 8, 2020

“He’s being hard on himself,” Rams quarterback Jared Goff said when told about McVay’s self-blaming for Gurley’s inactivity.

From Seattle Times ● Dec. 4, 2019

I dive into the art of self-blaming because in our society, silence is a yes.

From Salon ● Jul. 20, 2018

She thought over George's letter while she walked the four miles to Carm Hall; but her resolution had sprung into being directly she had heard the colonel's self-blaming answer to her questions.

From Niece Catherine by Mary Hampden

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