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self-blame

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[self-blaym] / ˈsɛlfˈbleɪm /

noun

  1. the act or attitude of blaming oneself for misfortune.


verb (used without object)

self-blamed, self-blaming
  1. to blame oneself.

Other Word Forms

  • self-blaming adjective

Example Sentences

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She says many mothers aren't sure why they're being frozen out, which can lead to "shame, confusion, and self-blame".

From BBC • Jan. 17, 2026

They also may be cycling through regret, internalized shame and self-blame for the relationship ending.

From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 1, 2024

They also hope to study the best strategies to teach people how to practice true self-compassion, reducing self-blame and criticism, while also holding themselves accountable to their personal standards and goals.

From Science Daily • Jan. 25, 2024

Haim said her two other children are struggling with sleep issues and even self-blame for their brother’s disappearance.

From Seattle Times • Oct. 17, 2023

The gunk of self-blame dissolves to leave just me standing there.

From "Saints and Misfits" by S.K. Ali