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self-possessed

American  
[self-puh-zest, self-] / ˈsɛlf pəˈzɛst, ˌsɛlf- /

adjective

  1. having or showing control of one's feelings, behavior, etc.; composed; poised.

    Synonyms:
    sedate, cool, serene, collected, calm

self-possessed British  

adjective

  1. having control of one's emotions, etc

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Other Word Forms

  • self-possessedly adverb
  • self-possession noun
  • unself-possessed adjective

Etymology

Origin of self-possessed

First recorded in 1760–70

Example Sentences

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An even more welcome addition to our already bulging shelves is the belated arrival of a largely complete studio discography of Britain’s greatest conductor, and certainly its most self-possessed: the musical grandee Sir Thomas Beecham.

From The Wall Street Journal • Dec. 23, 2025

He unabashedly leans into that vibe here, even while wrangling his pair of self-possessed cats.

From Los Angeles Times • Oct. 3, 2025

My wise, self-possessed, inspirational friend says, “Cultivate your happy,” to balance the scales.

From Salon • Sep. 12, 2024

Through the school office she arranged to buy the piece for $250, and she soon became friendly with Ms. Mackler, a brassy, self-possessed presence at the school.

From New York Times • Feb. 2, 2024

It took a courageous and self-possessed woman to take such a step.

From "Zeitoun" by Dave Eggers