self-possession

American  

[self-puh-zesh-uhn, self-] / ˈsɛlf pəˈzɛʃ ən, ˌsɛlf- /

noun

1. the quality of being self-possessed; control of one's feelings, behavior, etc.; composure; poise.

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Etymology

Origin of self-possession

First recorded in 1735–45

Example Sentences

But nothing comes across more clearly in “Queen of Chess” than Judit Polgár’s unruffled self-possession.

From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 5, 2026

In a bright, charismatic performance, McCalla’s Elinor brings to life the character’s brainy charm and self-possession.

From Los Angeles Times • Apr. 14, 2025

It’s given me this facility, and this self-possession.

From Salon • Aug. 11, 2024

Of the four, he has the most fully-formed act, is the most convincing storyteller, and seems to have the self-possession required for stand-up.

From BBC • Aug. 22, 2023

But when Richard Parkers amber eyes met mine, the stare was intense, cold and unflinching, not flighty or friendly, and spoke of self-possession on the point of exploding with rage.

From "Life of Pi" by Yann Martel