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standoffish

American  
[stand-aw-fish, -of-ish] / ˈstændˈɔ fɪʃ, -ˈɒf ɪʃ /
Or stand-offish

adjective

  1. somewhat aloof or reserved; cold and unfriendly.


standoffish British  
/ ˌstændˈɒfɪʃ /

adjective

  1. reserved, haughty, or aloof

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of standoffish

First recorded in 1855–60; standoff + -ish 1

Explanation

Someone who's standoffish is aloof or unfriendly. When you first meet someone, she might seem standoffish when really she's just shy. A politician who appears standoffish will have more trouble getting elected than one who seems warm and likable. The adjective standoffish is a great informal word for describing people who are reserved or haughty or cold. Standoffish comes from a now obsolete meaning of the phrase stand off, "hold aloof."

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Kirk is appealingly standoffish, if such a thing might be imagined.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 7, 2026

Over the course of seven years, we saw them morph from standoffish children — often bullied because of the complexion of their skin — to two young, confident leaders.

From Seattle Times • Aug. 4, 2023

At a 1988 talk, the journalist Paul Goldberger asked Portman about the standoffish design of his Times Square Marriott Marquis.

From Slate • Jul. 28, 2023

It was an unnatural fit on paper — the sometimes standoffish candidate with few initial ties to Tallahassee and the genial consultant who had helped elect the man he hoped to succeed.

From New York Times • Apr. 18, 2023

The people weren’t mean up there, but some had a kind of standoffish nature.

From "Life Is So Good" by George Dawson

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