tough love

American

noun

a mixture of toughness and warmth used in a relationship, especially with an adolescent.

tough love British

noun

the practice of taking a stern attitude towards a relative or friend suffering from an addiction, etc, to help the addict overcome the problem

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Etymology

Origin of tough love

First recorded in 1977; after Toughlove, a network of support groups

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tough love

That tough love he talks about now began around then.

From BBC ● Jun. 10, 2026

And now for the tough love: You have reached the point where the question is no longer whether you’re saving enough.

From MarketWatch ● May 14, 2026

By all measures, Charles is choosing country over family, tough love over sibling loyalty, preserving the crown above all else.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Mar. 5, 2026

Clinton Kelly and Stacy London return as its hosts, older, wiser and atoning for the tough love and scathing real talk they once doled out to style-challenged guests.

From Salon ● Jan. 17, 2026

They warded off the negative stereotypes that haunted Negroes like shadows, using tough love to protect both the errant individual and the group from her failings.

From "Hidden Figures" by Margot Lee Shetterly

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