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velvet glove

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noun

  1. an outwardly gentle or friendly manner used to disguise one's firm or ruthless determination.


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“That velvet glove can come off, and the people know it can come off,” but mostly, you want them to comply because it feels like “just what has to be.”

From Los Angeles Times Oct. 28, 2025

“We’ve got to a point where we can no longer be able to afford the velvet glove diplomacy.”

From Seattle Times Sep. 16, 2023

A Republican colleague, Rep. E. Clay Shaw Jr., once told the Herald that Ms. Meek had “a velvet glove, but sometimes she can have a fist in it. She’s so likable that it’s sometimes disarming.”

From Washington Post Nov. 29, 2021

A caveat, though, was concealed in the velvet glove.

From New York Times Dec. 2, 2016

It is useless to make war with a velvet glove.

From The Submarine Hunters A Story of the Naval Patrol Work in the Great War by Hodgson, Edward S.

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