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velvet glove

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noun

  1. an outwardly gentle or friendly manner used to disguise one's firm or ruthless determination.


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It described her as having an "iron fist under the velvet glove", and observed that she knew how to "cut down Himalayan egos to the height of foothills".

From BBC ● Aug. 31, 2026

“We’ve got to a point where we can no longer be able to afford the velvet glove diplomacy.”

From Seattle Times ● Sep. 16, 2023

Still, within the velvet glove remains an iron fist.

From New York Times ● Jan. 13, 2022

A Republican colleague, Rep. E. Clay Shaw Jr., once told the Herald that Ms. Meek had “a velvet glove, but sometimes she can have a fist in it. She’s so likable that it’s sometimes disarming.”

From Washington Post ● Nov. 29, 2021

If we must handle the Southern mutineers in their Rebelutionary war with a velvet glove, let there be an iron hand inside, worked by the high-pressure power of public indignation at their treachery and faithlessness.

From The Continental Monthly, Vol. 1, No. 1, January 1862 Devoted to Literature and National Policy by Various

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