disconcerting vs. concerning
[dis-kuhn-sur-ting]
/ ˌdɪs kənˈsɜr tɪŋ /
adjective
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disturbing to one's composure or self-possession; upsetting, discomfiting.
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confusing, usually in the face of something totally unexpected; perplexing.
[kuhn-sur-ning]
/ kənˈsɜr nɪŋ /