self-control vs. self-discipline
[self-kuhn-trohl, self-]
/ ˈsɛlf kənˈtroʊl, ˌsɛlf- /
noun
[self-dis-uh-plin, self-]
/ ˌsɛlfˈdɪs ə plɪn, ˈsɛlf- /