ese
or esse [es-ey] or [ey-sey]
What does ese mean?
Ese, amigo, hombre. Or, in English slang, dude, bro, homey. Ese is a Mexican-Spanish slang term of address for a fellow man.
Where does ese come from?
Ese originates in Mexican Spanish. Ese literally means “that” or “that one,” and likely extended to “fellow man” as shortened from expressions like ese vato, “that guy.”
There are some more elaborate (though less probable) theories behind ese. One goes that a notorious Mexican gang, the Sureños (“Southerners”), made their way from Mexico City to Southern California in the 1960s. Ese is the Spanish name for letter S, which is how the gang members referred to each other. Or so the story goes.
Ese is recorded in English for a “fellow Hispanic man” in the 1960s. It became more a general term of address by the 1980s, though ese remains closely associated (and even stereotyped) with Chicano culture in the US.
Ese is notably found in the Chicano poetry of José Antonio Burciaga and Cheech & Chong comedy routines (Cheech Marin is Mexican-American.)
White confusion over ese was memorably parodied in a 2007 episode of the TV show South Park. On it, the boys think they can get some Mexican men to write their essays, but them men write letters home to their eses.
Examples of ese
drop the loc ese i got you
I told my Mexican student to turn in his essay / He said "I ain't no snitch!".
I know my place, ese / I know my location / My station / Es aquí
Who uses ese?
For Mexican and Mexican-American Spanish speakers, ese has the force of “dude,” “brother,” or “man,” i.e., a close and trusted friend or compatriot.
https://twitter.com/a1anxs/status/1091388050054176768
It’s often used as friendly and familiar term of address…
https://twitter.com/yg_monroe/status/1083994185592582144
…but it can also be more aggressively and forcefully.
https://twitter.com/GoonLeDouche/status/1012870028801306624
https://twitter.com/LeftyMcSwiper/status/1074748152635424770
Ese is associated with Mexican and Chicano American culture, where it can refer to and be used by both men and women. The term is also specifically associated with Mexican-American gang culture.
https://twitter.com/AlesiAkira/status/1087383683948961792
It is often considered appropriative for people outside those cultures to use ese, especially since some non-Mexican people may use ese in ways that mock Mexicans and Mexican-American culture.
NOTE
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