abstemious
Americanadjective
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sparing or moderate in eating and drinking; temperate in diet.
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characterized by abstinence.
an abstemious life.
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sparing.
an abstemious diet.
adjective
Other Word Forms
Etymology
Origin of abstemious
1615–25; < Latin abstēmius, equivalent to abs- abs- + tēm- (base of tēmētum intoxicating drink) + -ius -ious
Explanation
Reserve abstemious for someone who exercises restraint, especially with regard to alcohol. A rock musician may sing about enjoying wine and women, but in his private life he may be abstemious. You might get the idea that abstemious is a relative of abstain with a change of consonant, but in fact the two words only share the abs- prefix, meaning "away." The -temious bit in this adjective is from Latin temetum, "intoxicating drink," so it came to refer to someone who keeps alcohol (or other temptations) at arm's length. This word has the vowels a, e, i, o and u in alphabetical order; the adverb abstemiously adds the y!
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By 2014, she says, “the abstemious, incorruptible leader had become a louche, boorish one.”
From The Wall Street Journal • Apr. 30, 2026
During his visit at Cluain Mhic Nóis, Artt makes few complaints about the abbot’s lax management, but everything about his abstemious manner suggests how disappointed he is.
From Washington Post • Aug. 16, 2022
A properly dressed salad is no more abstemious than anything else.
From The Guardian • Aug. 15, 2019
There are echoes of Beckett in this novel’s abstemious style and existential echoes.
From New York Times • Dec. 6, 2017
“I should have guessed. Too opulent for your abstemious revolutionary and yourself, I take it?”
From "Half of a Yellow Sun" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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