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[kuh-miz-uh-reyt] /kəˈmɪz əˌreɪt/
verb (used with object), commiserated, commiserating.
to feel or express sorrow or sympathy for; empathize with; pity.
verb (used without object), commiserated, commiserating.
to sympathize (usually followed by with):
They commiserated with him over the loss of his job.
Origin of commiserate
1585-95; < Latin commiserātus (past participle of commiserārī), equivalent to com- com- + miser pitiable (see misery) + -ātus -ate1
Related forms
commiserable, adjective
commiseration, noun
commiserative, adjective
commiseratively, adverb
commiserator, noun
noncommiseration, noun
noncommiserative, adjective
noncommiseratively, adverb
uncommiserated, adjective
uncommiserating, adjective
uncommiserative, adjective
uncommiseratively, adverb
Can be confused
commensurate, commiserate. Unabridged
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Examples from the Web for commiserating
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  • commiserating their condition, he gave them one of their black companions.

    The Industries of Animals Frdric Houssay
  • The poor had a commiserating friend in her and the sick a tender nurse.

    Rabbi and Priest

    Milton Goldsmith
  • "I hope you are not sick, Washburn," I said, in commiserating tones.

    Down South Oliver Optic
  • She did, however, wake up to the fact that Coombe and Maiden were commiserating her.

    A Likely Story William De Morgan
  • Andrei Petrovitch talked to me in a sort of commiserating way.

    On the Eve Ivan Turgenev
  • Miss Verney's eyes fixed themselves on her in a commiserating stare.

    Sanctuary Edith Wharton
  • And casting a commiserating glance at Viviana, she closed the door.

    Guy Fawkes William Harrison Ainsworth
  • "He was a world of trouble to you, ma'am," said Mrs. Hubble, commiserating my sister.

    Great Expectations Charles Dickens
  • "I was sorry to hear of your disappointment," added she, in a commiserating tone.

    The Actress in High Life

    Sue Petigru Bowen
British Dictionary definitions for commiserating


when intr, usually foll by with. to feel or express sympathy or compassion (for)
Derived Forms
commiserable, adjective
commiseration, noun
commiserative, adjective
commiseratively, adverb
commiserator, noun
Word Origin
C17: from Latin commiserārī, from com- together + miserārī to bewail, pity, from miser wretched
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Word Origin and History for commiserating



c.1600, from Latin commiseratus, past participle of commiserari "to pity, bewail" (see commiseration). Related: Commiserated; commiserating. An Old English loan-translation of commiserate was efensargian.

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper
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