condescending

American  

[kon-duh-sen-ding] / ˌkɒn dəˈsɛn dɪŋ /

adjective

1. showing or implying a usually patronizing descent from dignity or superiority.

   They resented the older neighbors' condescending cordiality.

   Synonyms:

   supercilious, disdainful, patronizing

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condescending British  

/ ˌkɒndɪˈsɛndɪŋ /

adjective

1. showing or implying condescension by stooping to the level of one's inferiors, esp in a patronizing way

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Usage

What does condescending mean? To be condescending is to interact with others in a way that implies that you’re superior to them. It especially refers to when this is done in an arrogant or patronizing way—meaning when you act as if you’re doing someone a favor by supposedly lowering yourself to their level of understanding or intelligence. Condescending is always used negatively and implies that such behavior is insulting to the person or people it’s directed toward. The word can be used to describe a person, their actions, or their words. It’s especially applied to words like comment, tone, and attitude. Being condescending often involves not only what is said, but also how it’s said. A condescending tone is often one that sounds like it’s directed at a child. Condescending is most commonly used as an adjective, but it’s also the continuous tense (-ing form) of the verb condescend, which most commonly means to act in this way. The act of doing so is called condescension. Example: You don’t have to be so condescending by explaining it to me with small words—I understand the topic just fine.

Other Word Forms

• condescendingly
  adverb
• noncondescending
  adjective
• noncondescendingly
  adverb
• noncondescendingness
  noun
• uncondescending
  adjective
• uncondescendingly
  adverb

Etymology

Origin of condescending

First recorded in 1630–40; condescend + -ing ²

Compare meaning

How does condescending compare to similar and commonly confused words? Explore the most common comparisons:

• patronizing vs. condescending

Explanation

If you are being condescending, you are looking down on someone. A 10-year-old who says to his sibling, "What do you know? You're only a 6-year-old!" is being condescending. The Latin prefix con- means "with," and the Latin word for descend means "down," so the word condescending probably developed to describe someone who looked down on others. Condescending behavior is, not surprisingly, itself looked down upon. It's usually intended to make people feel bad about not knowing or having something, and it very often works.

Example Sentences

Condescending doctors become synonymous with all doctors, pompous academics with all academics.

From Slate • Jan. 23, 2017

Though you’re of the loathed elite, Condescending and effete, Life can once again be sweet For folks like you.

From Washington Post • Dec. 15, 2016

Condescending insult by a team who knows better.

From MSNBC • Nov. 2, 2015

Condescending Homer: “Marge, who would give up eating steak in the Matrix to go slurp goo in Zion?”

From Time • Jun. 18, 2014

Condescending to the attitude of suppliant, he implored of Europe peace.

From Napoleon Bonaparte by Abbott, John S. C. (John Stevens Cabot)

Related Words

• arrogant
• highfalutin
• patronizing
• snooty