patronizing
Americanadjective
adjective
Usage
What does patronizing mean? Patronizing is an adjective that means displaying condescension toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that it’s actually kind or helpful to that person. Patronizing can be used to describe a person or their words, tone, attitude, or actions. Patronizing is also the continuous (-ing) form of the verb patronize, which means to act toward someone in this way. (A separate sense of patronize means to be a customer—or patron—of a business or other establishment.)Being patronizing often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Example: Don’t be so patronizing, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.
Other Word Forms
- nonpatronizing adjective
- patronizingly adverb
- quasi-patronizing adjective
- quasi-patronizingly adverb
- unpatronizing adjective
- unpatronizingly adverb
Etymology
Origin of patronizing
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Example Sentences
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What were they doing to develop “anti-smog muffler devices”? A month later, Hahn got back the first of many testy, patronizing responses.
From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 26, 2026
You can empathize with your friend without demonizing your own position or patronizing her by saying everything will be OK.
From MarketWatch • Mar. 2, 2026
A spokeswoman for Ruemmler said that in her message to Epstein, she was “obviously patronizing him.”
From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 6, 2026
But those successes are also what make the Netflix-ification of this film feel so completely unnecessary and patronizing.
From Salon • Jan. 25, 2026
Where some idiot like myself would have been smug and patronizing, the demoness really wanted to learn.
From "Dragonwings" by Laurence Yep
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